Negative People In Your Life And How To Deal With Them
How do you deal with negative people in your life right now and how are they affecting your general mood in moving forward in your life?
What do I mean by negative people?
What can happen is you might have a dream or you’ve got something you want to do and the people around you are not supporting you.
They’re not giving you encouragement and they’re almost poo-pooing the ideas that you’ve got in your head, thinking that you’re silly.
If this thing that you want to do, this dream you want to fulfil, this job you want to do, whatever it is … If you want it badly enough, then you won’t take any notice of the people who are being negative around you.
Dealing With Negative People
When I started a business in the 90s, I had a secure job …. I gave it up to start a business from scratch.
Everybody around me thought I was absolutely crazy bonkers.
They said, “What are you doing playing around, giving up your career?”
But what I wanted to do mattered so much to me, their opinions didn’t matter.
Their opinions weren’t going to change my life. I was going to change my life.
Nobody can do it but you.
You have to decide if what you’re doing is important enough to you to do it.
When I first started working online, I had lots of people comment, “What is that crap you keep putting on Facebook?”
I ignored those as well, because what I wanted to do was important to me.
I’ve also found in my journey that if you surround yourself with people who are positive, it is so much better than surrounding yourself with people who are negative.
The people who are negative, those comments that they make, if you really take them on board, they can affect you.
They can drag you down.and make you doubt yourself, wondering whether you’re doing the right thing.
Surround yourself with people that will be supportive.
There are even situations where you might have what I would call “toxic people” in your life. They do everything they can to make you feel negative about everything.
Distance yourself from anyone who is treating you like that.
Look where you’re getting your support. Think about who it is in your circle that will support you and believe in you.
Obviously the most important thing is that you believe in yourself.
If what you are doing matters so much you won’t care what people think about you.
As a High Performance Coach, I deal with this all the time. In the 12 Core Sessions I cover ways for you to have more confidence and courage and much more.
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Lynda is a Certified High Performance Coach. She helps people to reach their next level of confidence, courage, and energy so that they feel more fulfilled, happy and successful in their life. Unlike other processes, this process is scientifically based and allows you to balance career or business without sacrificing your home life and relationships.